If your Venus is in Aquarius
Friendship comes first, and for you romance often grows out of long, easy conversations. You like people who are a little unusual, who think for themselves and don't need you around every minute. In return, you give the people you love plenty of room to be who they are. Big feelings can make you go cool and logical. Stay through the uncomfortable part: that's where someone really gets to know you.
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